Wednesday, July 11, 2007

Addendum (A Fifth List)

Reasons FoxyJ and I Have Decided to Keep Working on This Marriage Thing
  1. Because we want to.

13 comments:

TK said...

YEAH! YEAH! YEAH! (I'm using my loudest voice here!)

What else can I say?

With God nothing is impossible.

Tina said...

HOLY SCHHMOKAROLIS!!!

Mom just sent me an email that says, "Oh ye of little faith! Read Ben's latest blog."

We will keep praying/hoping/thinking good thought etc. for you.

mamamormon said...

How exciting for you both!! I hope whatever is the best for you both and your family is what happens.

(Was that open-ended and supportive enough? lol - but seriously - my very best, supportive wishes to you both for peace and joy.)

JB said...

It's funny, I occasionally feel like you two are characters in a novel I'm reading. I also feel like we're friends sometimes, because I get such intimate glimpses into your lives sometimes. But I've never wanted for you two anything other than you two have wanted. And that's weird for me. Usually, the person, or character, who's life you're eavesdropping on does something you wish they'd do differently.

But you and FoxyJ seem to know what's right for yourselves. You both seem to be honest with yourselves and each other. That makes me think you really do know better than anyone else what you should do. Which is mostly how I feel for everyone and very strongly how I actually feel for you.

I'm glad to hear you two have become closer and have been able to share about your feelings and thoughts on being in a mixed-orientation marriage.

Best of luck to your whole family. I'm glad you two were able to try out being separated, so you don't have to keep wondering and you don't have to feel like you can't get out if you need to. But maybe it'll just make you two a stronger couple!

Mandi said...

Good luck you crazy kids!

Elbow said...

That's great, you shouldn't end it if there is still something there between the two of you that you can't let go of. Best of luck.

Miss Hass said...

The very best of wishes for you and your family.

Th. said...

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With this and the Foxy post you linked to the other day, I believe all things are possible. And likely even likely.

Kristeee said...

Wow - I'm happy for you both and wish you the best. It actually made my morning reading Foxy's post.

Chris said...

Wow.

Melyngoch said...

Wild things, you make my heart sing.

Rebecca said...

Hey! That's the same reason I eat ice cream!

ambrosia ananas said...

: )